Certified Coach, Peer Counsellor, and Advocate for Real Lasting Change — guiding individuals, couples, and families through problems, crisis, loss, and trauma since 2006. I am radically honest, deeply empathetic, and a total mirror. I work online, worldwide, in English, German, French, and Luxembourgish.
My mission is simple yet brutal: stop having children until you’ve done the work on yourself and started healing. I help adults break free from the weight of their childhood, guide parents to raise with awareness and make amends to their grown children, and prepare future parents to create a safer, stronger, happier next generation.
That’s why I created The Whitetrashroyal Movement — end toxic inheritance now.
One truth: what you don’t heal, you pass on. Even the wounds you can’t see still leave their mark — on your child, your partner, or on yourself as you carry your parents’ pain.
It’s not their job to heal from you.
Stop generational trauma.
you've got this!
Why most people can't find a good coach
1. “Coaching is too expensive or takes forever.”
👉 My approach: You pay depending on your income — so anyone can afford me. And if money gets in the way, we’ll find a solution together.
2. “I can’t find the right coach for me.”
👉 My approach: I’ve lived it, not just studied it. Real talk. Real fit. That’s why I offer a free 30-minute call before we truly engage — so you know if we vibe.
3. “I always fall back into old patterns.”
👉 My mandatory approach: Coaching doesn’t stop after the main process. I require continuous support for at least 3–12 months (minimum one session per month). Because real change only sticks with consistency.
🔥 All that matters is this: Do we vibe — and can I assist you?
Simple. Book your free call and find out.
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Worst case? We have a good talk, you will definitely learn something, share a laugh, and move on.
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Best case? We go on an amazing self-discovery journey that shifts a lot in your life and in those you care for.
The only way you won’t grow is by not finding out. It’s really that simple.
[ ⚡ Stop the excuses. Stop the overthinking. Just book your free call now. ]
💬 What I Do
I work with individuals, couples, families, and even organisations through crisis, trauma, loss, and all the shadows:
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Trauma, neglect, rejection, not feeling seen or heard, carrying parents’ pain, broken bonds.
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Shame, guilt, self-blame, anger, aggression, depression, anxiety, burnout, chaos, drama, self-sabotage, loneliness, isolation, too much, not enough, ADHD, Panic Attacks and so much more.
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Alcohol, drugs, chemsex, eating obsessions, body image struggles, steroids, numbing, escape.
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Toxic relationships, betrayal, ghosting, abuse, manipulation, heartbreak, divorce, estrangement, a child who hates you.
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HIV, illness, sexuality struggles, health shame, secrets, fear of judgement.
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Work sick leave, lost productivity, careers on hold — all rooted in unresolved childhood issues.
And once the heavy lifting begins — or even while it’s still unfolding — I guide you into the next stage:
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Finding peace within yourself and your relationships — whether that means letting go or staying true to yourself while accepting others.
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Building your own business (even your own website).
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Rebuilding your body and health without shame.
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Attracting better people — including that special someone.
💡 Pricing
My coaching is affordable to everybody and accessible online.
I work on a percentage of your income, so anyone can afford me. Even if you’ve got very little right now, we’ll work something out — money should never be the reason you don’t heal.
There’s only one way to begin: book your free 30-minute call.
No matter where you are, we can connect. I speak English, German, French, and Luxembourgish.
[ ⚡ Book Your Free Call , just do it!]
🖤 Who I Am
I am a mirror and a helper. A mental health coach and peer counsellor who uses a brutal yet rewarding life to guide others into facing themselves and taking full responsibility.
I’ve lived through things that would break most people — and I came back stronger.
I know what it’s like to feel lost, rejected, stuck, or broken. I’ve lived through the shadows I listed above, and more.
That’s why I can meet you exactly where you are — without judgement — and help you move forward.
No shame. No pretence. Just you, me, and the truth — from the safety of your own space, online.
🚀 Ready?
If you’ve read this far, something in you is already ready.
Don’t waste another second.
[ ⚡ Book Your Free Call , just do it!]
Be the cycle breaker you were meant to be.
What people have to say about me.
Alek is not someone who just talks, nor is he someone who simply listens.
He draws from immense life experience and cleverly integrates it into context. He is empathetic yet honest and speaks his mind directly.
Alek delves into the places where traces of the past still show — even if those are the exact pain points. Rarely have I encountered someone who challenged me so deeply without me even realising it. And rarely have I experienced so many moments that shook me up and genuinely prepared me for the future. Years of therapy and even day clinic stays were lukewarm preparation for what I’m now achieving with him. Alek has given me new structures that actually equip me for whatever might come next. And when life does wobble again — he’s there. Thanks for that!
Johann Skierka, Berlin.
you've got this!
CRISIS CLARITY: A SINGLE SESSION TO BREAK THROUGH
Breakup. Breakdown. Blow-up.
Maybe you’re standing in front of a big decision — and before you make an expensive, painful mistake.
Or maybe you’ve just lost someone you love — your partner, a family member, or even a pet — and you need to talk now.
The Aftershock always feels unbearable alone.
Book one call. I’ll meet you where you are — no judgement, no sugar-coating.
We’ll cut through the chaos, pull you back on your feet, and give you clarity to breathe again.
⚡ If you’re fast enough, you can talk to me today — online, worldwide. Book now.
